{"id":1150,"date":"2018-03-15T09:47:06","date_gmt":"2018-03-15T09:47:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/?p=1150"},"modified":"2018-03-15T09:47:06","modified_gmt":"2018-03-15T09:47:06","slug":"introductions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/2018\/03\/15\/introductions\/","title":{"rendered":"Introductions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[fusion_builder_container hundred_percent=&#8221;no&#8221; hundred_percent_height=&#8221;no&#8221; hundred_percent_height_scroll=&#8221;no&#8221; hundred_percent_height_center_content=&#8221;yes&#8221; equal_height_columns=&#8221;no&#8221; menu_anchor=&#8221;&#8221; hide_on_mobile=&#8221;small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility&#8221; class=&#8221;&#8221; id=&#8221;&#8221; background_color=&#8221;&#8221; background_image=&#8221;&#8221; background_position=&#8221;center center&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;no-repeat&#8221; fade=&#8221;no&#8221; background_parallax=&#8221;none&#8221; enable_mobile=&#8221;no&#8221; parallax_speed=&#8221;0.3&#8243; video_mp4=&#8221;&#8221; video_webm=&#8221;&#8221; video_ogv=&#8221;&#8221; video_url=&#8221;&#8221; video_aspect_ratio=&#8221;16:9&#8243; video_loop=&#8221;yes&#8221; video_mute=&#8221;yes&#8221; video_preview_image=&#8221;&#8221; border_size=&#8221;&#8221; border_color=&#8221;&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; margin_top=&#8221;&#8221; margin_bottom=&#8221;&#8221; padding_top=&#8221;&#8221; padding_right=&#8221;&#8221; padding_bottom=&#8221;&#8221; padding_left=&#8221;&#8221;][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=&#8221;1_1&#8243; layout=&#8221;1_1&#8243; spacing=&#8221;&#8221; center_content=&#8221;no&#8221; link=&#8221;&#8221; target=&#8221;_self&#8221; min_height=&#8221;&#8221; hide_on_mobile=&#8221;small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility&#8221; class=&#8221;&#8221; id=&#8221;&#8221; background_color=&#8221;&#8221; background_image=&#8221;&#8221; background_position=&#8221;left top&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;no-repeat&#8221; hover_type=&#8221;none&#8221; border_size=&#8221;0&#8243; border_color=&#8221;&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; border_position=&#8221;all&#8221; padding_top=&#8221;&#8221; padding_right=&#8221;&#8221; padding_bottom=&#8221;&#8221; padding_left=&#8221;&#8221; dimension_margin=&#8221;&#8221; animation_type=&#8221;&#8221; animation_direction=&#8221;left&#8221; animation_speed=&#8221;0.3&#8243; animation_offset=&#8221;&#8221; last=&#8221;no&#8221;][fusion_text]<\/p>\n<div class=\"fusion-post-content-container\">\n<div class=\"block_align\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thecatpalace.com.au\/introductions\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1404\" src=\"\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Introductions.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\"><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"pdfdownload\" style=\"position: absolute; left: 0; top: 0px;\"><a style=\"background: #3dae2b; padding: 10px 50px; margin-bottom: 0px; font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold; text-transform: uppercase; color: #fff;\" href=\"\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Introductions.pdf\" download=\"\">Download pdf<\/a><a class=\"view_full\" href=\"\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/introductions\/\">View full post<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2 data-fontsize=\"18\" data-lineheight=\"10\">Cats really prefer things to stay the same, and they are usually very unsubtle about indicating<br \/>\ntheir displeasure. Introducing a new anything&#8211;from another pet, to another human to even new<br \/>\nfurniture&#8211;is a source of anxiety for the cat and the owner, so these are some strategies to help<br \/>\nreduce the disruptions.<\/h2>\n<p>Introducing yourself&#8211;the easiest one.<br \/>\nThis is achieved when your cat selects you, and you can<br \/>\nbe pretty sure it will be love at first sight. Your new feline<br \/>\nfriend will quickly train you to their unique requirements,<br \/>\nand most owners do not present any obstacles. (In fact,<br \/>\nit amazes me what owners will put up with from their<br \/>\ncats&#8211;their feline dictator\u2019s training methods are obviously<br \/>\nvery effective!) Remember, no cat ever changes&#8211;all<br \/>\nyou can do is change the environment so the<br \/>\ncat no longer shows the undesirable<br \/>\nbehaviour (this goes for spraying,<br \/>\nscratching&#8211;posts and people,<br \/>\nroaming, food fetishists, etc.)<br \/>\nMake your rules at the start,<br \/>\nand be consistent. Cats<br \/>\nare smart (smart enough<br \/>\nto need antidepressants!),<br \/>\nbut they have no way of<br \/>\nassociating something<br \/>\nthey did more than HALF<br \/>\nA SECOND AGO with any<br \/>\nkind of punishment. In<br \/>\nfact, PUNISHMENT NEVER<br \/>\nWORKS WITH CATS, all the<br \/>\nFeline Stars of T.V. perform<br \/>\nof their own free will, and it is<br \/>\nthe cameramen who make it look<br \/>\neasy and directed!<br \/>\nIntroducing another person<br \/>\nThe main concept here is to let the cat make<br \/>\nthe first approach. This is important when bringing a cat<br \/>\ninto a new home or bringing a new person into the cat\u2019s<br \/>\nhome. They have to get the measure of the person, and<br \/>\nthey do that by smell, watching and listening. Remember<br \/>\nthat when a cat walks into a room, it knows (by smell<br \/>\nespecially) who is already there, who was there half an<br \/>\nhour ago, and who is coming down the hall now. It is<br \/>\na lot of information to process, and if you rush it, you<br \/>\ncan unnerve the cat. Give the cat a chance to \u2018take it or<br \/>\nleave it\u2019 and never look straight into a cat\u2019s eyes&#8211;it is a<br \/>\nvery confrontational thing to do in cat language. Wait,<br \/>\nwith your head to the side and and look past the cat with<br \/>\nhalf closed eyes. They will come just out of curiosity<br \/>\nthen!<br \/>\nIntroducing a baby (or toddler)<br \/>\nCats view babies and toddlers as different species to adult<br \/>\nhumans.Remarkable perception really, though a bit confusing<br \/>\nnow that cats are living longer and can see them<br \/>\ngrow up! Cats will usually tolerate significantly<br \/>\nmore in the way of sticky fingers and<br \/>\nuncoordinated proddings from a young<br \/>\nhuman, and as long as they have an<br \/>\nescape route they will use that in<br \/>\npreference!<br \/>\nThe key to managing the return<br \/>\nof a new baby to the household,<br \/>\nis to understand that the biggest<br \/>\nconcern for your cat is the<br \/>\nchanges in routine and smells. It<br \/>\nis essential to manage the cat\u2019s<br \/>\nnatural curiosity, while protecting<br \/>\nthe baby and the cat from each other\u2019s<br \/>\nunexpected actions. Cats don\u2019t<br \/>\nsmother babies (that was the traditional<br \/>\nexplanation for SIDS deaths), and they<br \/>\nget into the cots because it is SOFT, WARM<br \/>\nAND HIGH UP!<br \/>\nYou have to decide BEFORE the baby comes home<br \/>\nwhether or not your feline friend will be allowed into the baby\u2019s<br \/>\nbedroom. If not, then the time to install the screen door and start<br \/>\npreventing access is NOW. Cats will learn not to go into rooms<br \/>\nif they are NEVER allowed in there &#8211; they do not understand<br \/>\n\u2018sometimes you can and sometimes you can\u2019t\u2019. If you are going<br \/>\nto allow access to the nursery, then if you can provide a shelf<br \/>\nwith a view of what is going on nearby, your cat will probably be<br \/>\nhappier to sit there, as they are not big on the way babies move<br \/>\naround in bed anyway, and they can take on a supervisory role!<\/p>\n<h2>Making feline friendships as painless as possible<\/h2>\n<p>It is a good idea to install the shelf and get your cat used to it before<br \/>\nthe baby arrives and everyone is pushed for time and energy.<br \/>\nMany cats will keep their distance from babies and toddlers, but<br \/>\nsome cats really blossom with the arrival of the new baby, especially<br \/>\nas it means someone is at home with them more! However, try<br \/>\nto establish a routine that the cat can count on with feeding and<br \/>\nplaytimes for them as well, and always ensure they have an escape<br \/>\nroute to lessen their anxiety should the small human become too<br \/>\nboisterous.<br \/>\nIntroducing another cat<br \/>\nCats really don\u2019t like other cats most of the time, so THIS<br \/>\nCAN BE HARD! A great deal<br \/>\ndepends on whether the<br \/>\nresident cat\/s have ever had<br \/>\na friendship with another cat,<br \/>\nand depends on the age of<br \/>\nboth the resident and the new<br \/>\narrival. If the newcomer is a<br \/>\nKITTEN, then isolating it in one<br \/>\nroom with its food, litter tray<br \/>\nand toys for a few days (till the<br \/>\nresident cat becomes Curious<br \/>\nrather than Furious) works well.<br \/>\n\u2018Toweling\u2019 the resident, then<br \/>\nthe newcomer, then the resident<br \/>\nagain mingles the smells<br \/>\nand makes the new cat less<br \/>\n\u2018strange\u2019. Once you open the<br \/>\ndoor between them, DO NOT<br \/>\nINTERRUPT THE HISSING AND<br \/>\nSPITTING THAT IS BOUND TO<br \/>\nHAPPEN. You can cause confusion,<br \/>\nand cats can\u2019t apologise, so it will then take much<br \/>\nlonger for them to figure out an amicable arrangement.<br \/>\nYoung cats (less than 6 months) will usually bond quickly<br \/>\nand permanently, older cats take longer and may take up<br \/>\nto six months to sort out their \u2018timeshare\u2019 arrangements<br \/>\naround the cozy spots of the house. It is rare for these<br \/>\nconfrontations to become lethal, or even lead to a severe<br \/>\nenough fight to cause damage. You can use the Feliway<br \/>\nDiffuser here to make the room where they meet more<br \/>\n\u2018emotionally cozy\u2019 and reduce anxiety, but the cats will have<br \/>\nto have a \u2018discussion\u2019 and speak their mind as well.<br \/>\nIntroducing a dog<br \/>\nDogs are really no challenge to a cat &#8211; as long as they can<br \/>\nescape if they have to. The cat will always just \u2018go high\u2019<br \/>\nand then view the dog with disdain if it prefers not to<br \/>\nbe in canine company. The trick about the introduction<br \/>\nis to prevent the DOG\u2019s hunting instinct from creating a<br \/>\nCATastrophy by chasing the cat<br \/>\n&#8211; sometimes out onto the road<br \/>\nor other dangerous places. So,<br \/>\nput the dog on a lead and let<br \/>\nthe cat investigate. You are in<br \/>\ncontrol then and can disrupt<br \/>\nany problems. Once the cat is<br \/>\naware of the fact that the dog<br \/>\nis allowed to live in the same<br \/>\nhouse or yard, then in general,<br \/>\nit will control the meetings.<br \/>\nThe dog may get a few biffs on<br \/>\nthe nose, but rarely any major<br \/>\ndamage unless it manages to<br \/>\nbail the cat into a corner. Then<br \/>\nit will have to learn the cat rules<br \/>\npainfully. Many cats learn to<br \/>\nadore dogs (they are, after all,<br \/>\nmobile warm cushions!), especially<br \/>\nthey are introduced when<br \/>\nthe kitten is young enough to<br \/>\naccept it as a friend!<br \/>\nSome cats, like some people, love everybody they meet,<br \/>\nand will tolerate all kinds of change. However, as it is for<br \/>\nmost of us, First Impressions Do Count, and done thoughtfully<br \/>\nand respectfully, can reduce conflict. How closely<br \/>\nfeline lives reflect our own!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/fusion_text][\/fusion_builder_column][\/fusion_builder_row][\/fusion_builder_container]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[fusion_builder_container hundred_percent=&#8221;no&#8221; hundred_percent_height=&#8221;no&#8221; hundred_percent_height_scroll=&#8221;no&#8221; hundred_percent_height_center_content=&#8221;yes&#8221; equal_height_columns=&#8221;no&#8221; menu_anchor=&#8221;&#8221; hide_on_mobile=&#8221;small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility&#8221; class=&#8221;&#8221; id=&#8221;&#8221; background_color=&#8221;&#8221; background_image=&#8221;&#8221; background_position=&#8221;center center&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;no-repeat&#8221; fade=&#8221;no&#8221; background_parallax=&#8221;none&#8221; enable_mobile=&#8221;no&#8221; parallax_speed=&#8221;0.3&#8243; video_mp4=&#8221;&#8221; video_webm=&#8221;&#8221; video_ogv=&#8221;&#8221; video_url=&#8221;&#8221; video_aspect_ratio=&#8221;16:9&#8243; video_loop=&#8221;yes&#8221; video_mute=&#8221;yes&#8221; video_preview_image=&#8221;&#8221; border_size=&#8221;&#8221; border_color=&#8221;&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; margin_top=&#8221;&#8221; margin_bottom=&#8221;&#8221; padding_top=&#8221;&#8221; padding_right=&#8221;&#8221; padding_bottom=&#8221;&#8221; padding_left=&#8221;&#8221;][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=&#8221;1_1&#8243; layout=&#8221;1_1&#8243; spacing=&#8221;&#8221; center_content=&#8221;no&#8221; link=&#8221;&#8221; target=&#8221;_self&#8221; min_height=&#8221;&#8221; hide_on_mobile=&#8221;small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility&#8221; class=&#8221;&#8221; id=&#8221;&#8221; background_color=&#8221;&#8221; background_image=&#8221;&#8221; background_position=&#8221;left top&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;no-repeat&#8221; hover_type=&#8221;none&#8221; border_size=&#8221;0&#8243; border_color=&#8221;&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1150","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"dsm_author":{"name":"Dr. Kim Kendall","avatar_url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&r=g","archive_link":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/author\/dr-kim-kendall\/","biodata":""},"dsm_categories":[{"term_name":"Blog","term_id":10,"term_link":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/blog\/"}],"dsm_attachment_categories":[],"dsm_featured_image":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1150","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1150"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1150\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1150"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1150"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thecatpalace.com.au\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1150"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}